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Many entrepreneurs I speak with are looking for advice on how to build confidence.

They want to simplify their activities and understand the keys to confidence building.

Running a business can be hard work.

There is always so much to do and so little time to do it in.

It is essential, therefore, when challenges arise to protect self-confidence.

Many business owners get to the end of a day and struggle to think of anything really positive that has happened.

When that feeling of non achievement happens self-confidence can plummet. 

There is a better way.

One that ensures you build self-confidence and feel like you have momentum and are moving forward.

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How to be more confident: 10 self-confidence tips 

Keys to confidence building 

The keys to confidence building start with mindset.

If you want to learn how to gain confidence every day, ensure that you feel like you’ve achieved something important.

For many small business owners, their to do lists get longer every day.

They’re juggling multiple roles and responsibilities. 

The keys to confidence building is to work smarter, not harder.

The focus should be on always winning.

Always making progress towards your goals.

People want to learn how to build confidence, but they feel trapped.

How to build confidence 

How would you feel if you could take a step back and simplify things?

If you had simple techniques that would show you how to build self-confidence?  

In this article I’ll share 9 tips that will show you have to build confidence and maintain it.  

1. Build self-confidence by focusing on achievements 

Simplify your time, energy and productivity by focusing on achieving just three things every day.

If recognising and expressing gratitude for your achievements would benefit your business and life, let’s step back and look at how you can do it.

Let’s start with a plan around about how to build confidence in the next 90 days.

Imagine you’ve got to the end of the next 90 days and you’re looking back.

Think about how happy you would be with your progress if you had 270 real achievements during that 90 day period (3 x 90 days).

What would that mean for your business growth?  For your personal confidence?

2. Gain confidence with three wins 

So, let’s try this:

Start each day (or set up the night before where you can) with the mindset and intention of getting three important things or projects completed that day.

If a fourth gets added, great.

When you restrict yourself to focusing on achieving three big things each day your mind gets a laser like focus and you ask yourself “What are the most important things I have to work on?”

Learn how to build self-confidence by simplifying

If you want to learn how to build confidence, the key is simplify.

If you have other projects or tasks that you want to be on that daily list, it might be time to ask yourself if you have the ability or financial resources to find experts and specialists who can work with you.

Or simply start the process to build a team around you.

These three core achievements are linked directly to your goals.

That way you feel you are constantly moving forward, building your confidence and belief.

3. Create a self-confidence habit

Try celebrating three achievements every day for 14 days.

See what kind of results you can achieve and sense how much more confident you feel..

Building confidence becomes a habit

If it working, it will become a success habit that you enjoy.

The key is to be intentional and make progress every day..

To set this up first thing in the morning or the previous night .

If your desired achievement list off until later, chances are that you’ll get really busy or run out of time.

This might seem like a small thing to implement but sometimes small steps create the biggest breakthroughs.  I highly recommend you give it a go. and get started.

4. Increase productivity (on the right things) 

Don’t let busyness know your confidence.

You won’t gain confidence by ticking things off from your long tasks list.

You have to identify and accomplish the high value tasks that really matter to you and your business.

It’s no secret that increasing your productivity will lead to faster and better results, and increase self-confidence.

Productivity is not about doing more, quicker or working longer.

It is about doing more great work and getting the important things done.

Wit that in mind, how do you actually become more productive?

5. Structure builds self-confidence 

Creating the right structure that helps you stick to a plan of action is not easy to do.

Distractions and low value stuff can remove our focus. 

But guess what? Those are all excuses, many of them driven by the fear of taking on a scary task or project.

It’s time to stop making excuses.

The choice is yours.

If you want to learn how to build self-confidence, make the commitment to become more disciplined and stay true to your own system and processes.

Start scheduling better.

If you commit to something, ensure you follow through. 

When you do, you will gain confidence.

6. Learn to stay focused

When I talk about “focus,” I mean to follow one course until you find success and remain distraction-free in the process.

If you had to guess, how much focus time do you have throughout any given day?

Thirty minutes?

Two hours?


Focused time is essential to help you take control of your time, master productivity and discipline.

When you achieve results during this time, you build confidence. 

Without that self-confidence, no matter how good your plan is or how well you fend off distractions, you’ll end up doing bad work that drains your energy and saps your creativity.

7. Have a clear sense of direction 

If you don’t have clarity on your goals, how will you know when you achieve them? 

One of the simplest ways to build confidence is to get greater clarity and be more specific about your vision for the future of your business and life.

If you have no clear plan or path in front of you, it can be tough to know what next steps to take.

When you are clear on your bigger goals, you get clearer on what you want your future to look like.

You get clearer on how you want to feel and what you want to be doing.

This clarity gives you a burst of energy and self-confidence.

Creating important goals, especially ones that are a lot bigger than where you are right now, has a way of igniting your passion.

8. Set shorter goals to build confidence 

If you’re committed to achieving your goals, you’ll have more self-confidence and will feel energised and motivated.

The key is to ensure that you stay on track to achieve these goals, to maintain high levels of self-confidence.

Managing and juggling day to day projects can get in the way.

Dealing with problems can get in the way.

Staying on top of orders, managing cash flow and handling day to day stuff can move your ship off course.

You want to be productive and achieve your goals, but you also need to ensure the day to day runs smoothly.

Setting 90 day goals

One way to ensure you stay on track is to set short-term 90 day outcome goals.

Continually achieving a small number of specific short-term goals helps you build self-confidence.

If you continually make progress every quarter, this self-confidence multiplies.

People often set too many short-term goals that are really hard to achieve.

The result.

The goals aren’t achieved.

Confidence levels drop.

Doubts creep in.

It becomes difficult to move forward.

Make it easier on yourself to achieve your 90 day goals by setting a smaller number of goals.

9. Focus on expanding your capabilities

What makes you feel self-confident?

Which activities are you doing?

Who are you spending your time with?

Having clarity on what gives you self-confidence, gives you the framework to continually gain confidence.

Write down what you have confidence in 

Take 5 minutes to write down all of the areas of your business and life where you currently feel confident.

These can be big or small.

They can be in both your business and personal life.

Now, that you have your list, write down your ten biggest self-confidence habits.

This list will help you maintain and increase self-confidence levels.

This exercise often highlights to people what their biggest strengths are.

When we are doing things we love to do, are passionate about with the people that mean the most we experience heightened levels of confidence.

Now I’d like to hear from you:

How quickly are you going to implement celebrating 3 achievements?

How do you build your own self-confidence and self-esteem?

Either way, let me know by leaving a comment below, right now!

Read also:

13 powerful ways to boost self-confidence 

10 simple ways to increase happiness


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